Psychopathic


This character structure develops as follows. The child is in an environment whereby it finds it difficult to get support from the parent of the same sex, while at the same time the parent of the opposite sex wants something from the child. Now because the child cannot get its fulfillment fully from the parent of the same sex, it tends to side more with the parent of the opposite sex.


However , because that parent has a covert agenda for the child, the child eventually finds that it cannot fulfill its needs fully from that parent either, feels betrayed by this, and thus learns to use manipulation to get what it needs. The child then grows up to be a person that believes that manipulation is the only way to get needs fulfilled. This person also demands to have their
needs fulfilled by others.

This person’s manipulation tendencies grow into a strong need to control others and have power over them through force or seduction. This overt superiority complex covers up a covert inferiority complex. Therefore this person’s biggest fear is the fear of failure, and their biggest dilemma is that they are dependent (in one way or another) on the very same people that they
feel they must control. They also have a great fear of being controlled and they thus tend not to express their needs while at the same time making others need them.
This person heals when they begin to trust life and stop trying to manipulate it. They have to start trusting that life will give them what is best for them; they have to stop believing that the only way they can get their needs fulfilled is by manipulation and control. They have to let go, allow. They also have to let go and feel their inner being and their true sexuality (not a
manipulative, controlling one based on an image of superiority). Once transformed, this person finds themselves with a tremendous amount of intellect, integrity, honesty, perseverance, courage, and love.

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